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Therapists Are Humans, Not Robots — Here’s a Bit About My Style I think it’s important for clients to understand who their therapist is and get a feel for their personality. That connection can be the difference between change and healing—or stagnation. There are so many therapists in the world, and if one doesn’t fit, I encourage you to keep trying. Just like finding the right clothes, doctor, or mechanic, the right therapist is someone who understands you and makes you feel

I’ve been part of the workforce since I was sixteen. For years, working multiple jobs was not an exception—it was my normal. By my late twenties, I was juggling a full-time job alongside three bartending gigs, constantly moving, constantly producing, constantly pushing through exhaustion because that’s what we’re taught to do. In January of 2020, my body forced me to stop. I landed in the hospital with what felt like my first heart attack. Given my family history—my grandfath

Love can feel intoxicating—but sometimes, it’s quietly eroding your sense of self. Recognizing the warning signs is the first step toward staying fully you while in a relationship. 1. You Constantly Compromise Your Values Sign:  You agree to things that feel wrong, just to avoid conflict or keep your partner happy. Why it happens:  Fear of loss, attachment patterns, or cultural messaging can make “sacrificing yourself” feel like love. Reclaim it:  Pause before saying yes—ask,

Every January, we are told to do the same thing: set goals, push harder, fix ourselves, grind forward. New year, new you. And yet, so many people feel like they’ve already failed by February. I don’t believe that’s because people lack discipline or motivation. I believe it’s because we are being asked to move against nature . The New Year arrives in the heart of winter—a season that teaches the opposite of hustle. Winter is not a time for expansion or productivity. It is a ti

The holidays are often painted as a time of joy, connection, and togetherness. But for many people, they can also be emotionally exhausting, triggering, and deeply dysregulating. If you find yourself feeling more anxious, irritable, shut down, or on edge this time of year, there is nothing “wrong” with you. There is context. Why the Holidays Activate Us So Deeply Many of us grow up in families where we are unconsciously assigned a role: The peacemaker The responsible one The

Women are tired. Tired of being looked at, lusted over, flirted with, touched but unseen still. Tired of giving nurture without receiving it. Tired of never being babied, softened, or cared for in the way they instinctively care for others. It is exhausting to only receive tenderness when we ask  for it. When we demand  it. When we finally do it ourselves because waiting feels lonelier than self‑reliance. Looking Is Not Seeing To look  at a woman is easy. To see  her requires

As a therapist, I’ve sat with many people who have quietly wondered if life is even worth continuing—not because they want to die, but because they are exhausted . Truly, bone-deep exhausted. Not from one moment or one crisis, but from years—sometimes decades—of being the caretaker, the problem-solver, the emotional sponge for everyone around them. Think of the child who watched her mother being abused and stepped into the role of protector far too young. She grows up and cho

Abuse. Domestic Violence (DV). Intimate Partner Violence (IPV). Assault. So many terms to describe the depths of psychological,...

This post feels unfinished and that is the intentions as this conversation is ongoing and vital. Please enjoy and know there is more...

Suicide is the second leading cause of death in children ages 10-14. Bullying in person and online, children using substances in school...

Before we begin: A common theme in my posts will be about family dynamics, generational trauma, how to navigate estrangement, parenting...

This blog space is where I will tell not just my own story, but the story of others in hopes that you will find something that resonates with you. My hope is that you will not feel alone and you too will know that your story matters and you can and will find healing in this crazy weird world. I hope we can all learn and grow together with the goal in mind of living our most authentic lives.